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	<title>Comments on: What Happened to Taking Your Time to Make a Decision?</title>
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		<title>By: Phil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 05:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post. I&#039;ve had so many clients like that it really took the joy out of working for them. My soon to be ex-partner had a cell phone/pda attached to her hip at all times and I often thought it was an excuse not to pay attention.

How about &quot;Right Effort&quot; it just can&#039;t happen without a little concentration.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post. I&#8217;ve had so many clients like that it really took the joy out of working for them. My soon to be ex-partner had a cell phone/pda attached to her hip at all times and I often thought it was an excuse not to pay attention.</p>
<p>How about &#8220;Right Effort&#8221; it just can&#8217;t happen without a little concentration.</p>
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		<title>By: Mrs Hannigan has 6 girls</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mrs Hannigan has 6 girls</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 23:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve often pondered whether kids ADD and ADHD might be attributed to this very phenomenon.  Surely, my kids have shown adverse reactions to my hurried lifestyle.   And by all means- take 3 days if you need to!

&lt;em&gt;Mrs Hannigan has 6 girls&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MrsHannigan/~3/268035506/no-sayer.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;the no sayer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve often pondered whether kids ADD and ADHD might be attributed to this very phenomenon.  Surely, my kids have shown adverse reactions to my hurried lifestyle.   And by all means- take 3 days if you need to!</p>
<p><em>Mrs Hannigan has 6 girls&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MrsHannigan/~3/268035506/no-sayer.html' rel="nofollow">the no sayer</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: James Chartrand - Men with Pens</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Chartrand - Men with Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 19:07:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Tamara - That&#039;s a nice take on the definition, but a freelancer is a worker. Self-employed, too. Work comes with responsibilities, I think.

On the other hand, the purest definition of freelancer is a worker who takes on short-term assignments from employers. No mention of &quot;business&quot;, really, simply the responsibility to produce a service for a set fee.

So maybe we&#039;re both right. 

However, you guys do have a business website and promote yourself as an agency for hire... does that not put you in the business category of the whole thing?

And to play devil&#039;s advocate, I do understand the &quot;freelancing should be free&quot; concept. I blogged about the constraints and the problems recently here:

&lt;a&gt;Freelancing Isn&#039;t Free&lt;/a&gt;

&lt;em&gt;James Chartrand - Men with Pens&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MenWithPens/~3/269355245/the-ultimate-men-with-pens-guide-to-twitter&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Ultimate Men with Pens Guide to Twitter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Tamara &#8211; That&#8217;s a nice take on the definition, but a freelancer is a worker. Self-employed, too. Work comes with responsibilities, I think.</p>
<p>On the other hand, the purest definition of freelancer is a worker who takes on short-term assignments from employers. No mention of &#8220;business&#8221;, really, simply the responsibility to produce a service for a set fee.</p>
<p>So maybe we&#8217;re both right. </p>
<p>However, you guys do have a business website and promote yourself as an agency for hire&#8230; does that not put you in the business category of the whole thing?</p>
<p>And to play devil&#8217;s advocate, I do understand the &#8220;freelancing should be free&#8221; concept. I blogged about the constraints and the problems recently here:</p>
<p><a>Freelancing Isn&#8217;t Free</a></p>
<p><em>James Chartrand &#8211; Men with Pens&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MenWithPens/~3/269355245/the-ultimate-men-with-pens-guide-to-twitter' rel="nofollow">The Ultimate Men with Pens Guide to Twitter</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Tamara Berry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tamara Berry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 18:54:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James - Thanks for offering a different viewpoint on the subject. I wonder if running a freelancing &quot;business&quot; and simply being a freelancer mean two different things. In the former, the business side of things comes first. In the latter, the &quot;free&quot; side comes first. Perhaps it boils down to a matter of different goals at the end of the day.

Lis - I am also picky about the clients I take. To me, no amount of money is worth losing the freedom I&#039;ve gained from being a freelancer. Having a toddler means my life is not my own - that&#039;s simply where I am right now. If my clients can&#039;t handle it, I&#039;ll find some who can.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James &#8211; Thanks for offering a different viewpoint on the subject. I wonder if running a freelancing &#8220;business&#8221; and simply being a freelancer mean two different things. In the former, the business side of things comes first. In the latter, the &#8220;free&#8221; side comes first. Perhaps it boils down to a matter of different goals at the end of the day.</p>
<p>Lis &#8211; I am also picky about the clients I take. To me, no amount of money is worth losing the freedom I&#8217;ve gained from being a freelancer. Having a toddler means my life is not my own &#8211; that&#8217;s simply where I am right now. If my clients can&#8217;t handle it, I&#8217;ll find some who can.</p>
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		<title>By: Lis Garrett</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lis Garrett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 16:44:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hear ya!

I feel as though I am tethered to my computer, and it&#039;s really not how I want to live my life. I think if I didn&#039;t have my daughter at home with me during the day, I would be able to make the distinction between home and work more easily. Work would be from 8-2 with weekends off. But when kids are home, work time is always fragmented. You have to take time off to fly a kite every so often, because toddlers simply do not understand if you say &quot;no, I&#039;m busy.&quot; I find I am very picky about the people for whom I work. If they can&#039;t understand that, at this point in my life, my kids are my first priority while they are home from school, then I can&#039;t work for them. It&#039;s not me being unprofessional; it&#039;s me being a good and responsible parent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hear ya!</p>
<p>I feel as though I am tethered to my computer, and it&#8217;s really not how I want to live my life. I think if I didn&#8217;t have my daughter at home with me during the day, I would be able to make the distinction between home and work more easily. Work would be from 8-2 with weekends off. But when kids are home, work time is always fragmented. You have to take time off to fly a kite every so often, because toddlers simply do not understand if you say &#8220;no, I&#8217;m busy.&#8221; I find I am very picky about the people for whom I work. If they can&#8217;t understand that, at this point in my life, my kids are my first priority while they are home from school, then I can&#8217;t work for them. It&#8217;s not me being unprofessional; it&#8217;s me being a good and responsible parent.</p>
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		<title>By: James Chartrand - Men with Pens</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Chartrand - Men with Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 11:52:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good point and good post. 

I can see both sides of the coin. As a businessman, I don&#039;t like unresponsive workers, and I tend not to work with them again if it takes a day to get an answer, especially during what I consider working hours: Mon to Fri, 9 to 5.

As a freelancer, I do need free time and I do take time off to enjoy my family. The fast pace of Internet working can be draining.

But to work in a freelance Internet environment was my choice - and so, I must deal, cope, and find strategies to run my business and respond to clients.

When you&#039;re in business, you do need to be responsive. Stores post hours of operation, and they can&#039;t just shut down when they feel like taking a day off.

They do shut down though. Stores in my region don&#039;t open after 5pm. They may not open on weekends. I think freelancers are allowed that right to have free time as well.

I think it comes down to making the decision of what your work is: a hobby or a business? 

Set hours if you feel it&#039;s too much. Be responsive during those hours. Put up an email auto-responder when the shop is closed.

But I don&#039;t think it&#039;s fair to expect clients to be understanding when you say, &quot;Sorry, I was out flying a kite with my kids.&quot; Most people *will* understand (I do), but many won&#039;t. A lack of same day response on a working day isn&#039;t acceptable, in my mind.

&lt;em&gt;James Chartrand - Men with Pens&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MenWithPens/~3/269355245/the-ultimate-men-with-pens-guide-to-twitter&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Ultimate Men with Pens Guide to Twitter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good point and good post. </p>
<p>I can see both sides of the coin. As a businessman, I don&#8217;t like unresponsive workers, and I tend not to work with them again if it takes a day to get an answer, especially during what I consider working hours: Mon to Fri, 9 to 5.</p>
<p>As a freelancer, I do need free time and I do take time off to enjoy my family. The fast pace of Internet working can be draining.</p>
<p>But to work in a freelance Internet environment was my choice &#8211; and so, I must deal, cope, and find strategies to run my business and respond to clients.</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re in business, you do need to be responsive. Stores post hours of operation, and they can&#8217;t just shut down when they feel like taking a day off.</p>
<p>They do shut down though. Stores in my region don&#8217;t open after 5pm. They may not open on weekends. I think freelancers are allowed that right to have free time as well.</p>
<p>I think it comes down to making the decision of what your work is: a hobby or a business? </p>
<p>Set hours if you feel it&#8217;s too much. Be responsive during those hours. Put up an email auto-responder when the shop is closed.</p>
<p>But I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s fair to expect clients to be understanding when you say, &#8220;Sorry, I was out flying a kite with my kids.&#8221; Most people *will* understand (I do), but many won&#8217;t. A lack of same day response on a working day isn&#8217;t acceptable, in my mind.</p>
<p><em>James Chartrand &#8211; Men with Pens&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MenWithPens/~3/269355245/the-ultimate-men-with-pens-guide-to-twitter' rel="nofollow">The Ultimate Men with Pens Guide to Twitter</a></em></p>
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