The Deal that Almost Broke Me

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By  Wendy Piersall

I know. I’m a professional blogger. And you all have been wondering why the heck I haven’t been writing lately.

So, there’s been this Deal. The Deal I’ve been working on for 3 months.

It was going to be a ‘Really Big Deal’ kind of Deal. A ‘Putting My Name on the Big Time Map’ kind of Deal. The kind of Deal that I can’t talk about because you don’t talk about this kind of Deal unless the Deal is Done.

And thanks to a few factors, mostly the economy, there is now No Deal. Suffice it to say, I cried myself to sleep about three times over the last week.

And now, I’m picking myself back up from the hardest fall I’ve ever taken as an entrepreneur.

I almost couldn’t do it. But then I thought of you. And I couldn’t face you if I gave up.

So, thanks. You readers have saved my ass. And now I’m back.

And I’m even able to think about finding a New Deal.

:)

*HUGS*

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1. On February 11th, 2009 at 12:25 am, Kelly said:

You Rock On My Friend :)

Nothing can keep you down for long!

2. On February 11th, 2009 at 12:33 am, Rock and Roll Mama said:

Wendy, Thank you for sharing this. I think it shows a tenacity of character, and I admire you for taking a minute to mourn what was going to be the deal- and then get back in the ring and look for a new deal. Thanks for not being afraid to show all sides of this process. I can’t wait to see what you do next.:)

Rock and Roll Mamas last blog post..Adventures in Kettlebell

3. On February 11th, 2009 at 1:01 am, Michael A Stelzner said:

Hey Wendy;

Not sure if you’re a spiritual person or not.

But I believe that God works in mysterious ways.

He opens some doors and closes others.

Last Fall I was inches away from closing a six digit book contract with one of my clients. The money was set aside and it was gonna happen.

Then it rapidly died on the vine.

In retrospect it was the best thing that could have happened. A few months later 2 of the 3 major contributors were let go and the book would have been impossible to finish.

On top of that, it encouraged me to do some VERY large things that now make that lost deal look like the best thing that could have happened.

So just wait to see what the future holds for you :)

Sometimes fame isn’t all that…

Mike

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4. On February 11th, 2009 at 1:07 am, Lucretia Pruitt said:

You are amazing – and I’m hoping that the “deal” comes back around again – because seriously? You are awesome and it should.

I’m glad you are hanging in there, hon.

Let’s just hope that we look back someday and laugh about how Q1 of 2009 was far rougher than we ever expected, and the rest of the year was far better than we ever did!!

((hug))

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5. On February 11th, 2009 at 1:33 am, Jennica Maxfield said:

Wendy,

Thank you for this post…you truly inspire me to keep at it even when things are not going right! Keep up the good work!

Jennica

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6. On February 11th, 2009 at 2:01 am, Kelvin Kao said:

Ah I know. Sometimes it’s like that. You can’t talk about the details before the deal is done. Maybe because of the people (yourself included) don’t think the details can be given out to the world, or because you don’t want to jinx it, or maybe Howie Mandel isn’t in front of you. It’s sort of lonely, sometimes.

Hope ou have better dealership (is that the right word? most likely not or I wouldn’t be using it) next time around!

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7. On February 11th, 2009 at 2:28 am, Des Walsh said:

I know you know this and I know it’s no consolation, but this sort of experience comes with the territory of being an entrepreneur. You reminded me of a time not so many years ago when I spent, from memory, about 12 months on a Deal. Amazing figures were quoted, everything seemed possible and suddenly it all disappeared.

Thank you for your typical generosity of spirit in sharing, Wendy. I’m sure your resilience (even if that is understandably somewhat creaky at present) will be an inspiration to one or more of your readers who now or one day has their own Disappearing Deal experience!

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8. On February 11th, 2009 at 6:36 am, Char said:

That was just a warmup to a bigger deal – allowing you to learn from your mistakes, outline your priorities better and to build your business sense even more.

I know you are disappointed, but its only a temporary setback. Bigger things are on the horizon.

9. On February 11th, 2009 at 9:35 am, Christina said:

Hang in there Wendy. You are too good a person to not have the right Deal come around. There is a better Deal around the corner – I promise.

Christinas last blog post..Introducing the Kindle 2

10. On February 11th, 2009 at 9:42 am, Stacie said:

Keep up the positive attitude. You are an inspiration to us all!!

How does that saying go? “Success consists of getting up once oftener than you fall down.” You are awesome!

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11. On February 11th, 2009 at 9:59 am, Susan Payton, The Marketing Eggspert said:

We love you Wendy!

Besides, what good would it do to take the first offer? NEVER take the first offer!!

Great seeing you.

12. On February 11th, 2009 at 10:09 am, Sommer Green & Clean Mom said:

Oh, Wendy. I’m not sure about what the deal was but even if the economy is bad…they have missed the boat not grabbing you up! My thoughts are with you and this post just shows what steal you are!

Sommer Green & Clean Moms last blog post..Who Pooped in the Peanut Butter?

13. On February 11th, 2009 at 10:26 am, Karen said:

You’re a smart business woman and entrepreneur. I know it has you down at the moment, but I’m sure things will turn around. :)

Karens last blog post..Financial Quote

14. On February 11th, 2009 at 10:47 am, Melanie Nelson said:

De-lurking to say I’m so glad you’re getting back on the horse.

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15. On February 11th, 2009 at 11:18 am, Christy said:

Wendy – That bites. Really. Three months is a good chunk of time to invest and have nothing to show for it. But, ya know what? There WILL be something better. You rawk sister and maybe this little porthole had to close so a beautiful bay window could open in its place.

BTW, it was awesome meeting and hanging out with you this weekend. Your personality is even brighter in person. :)

Mmmwah!

Christy

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16. On February 11th, 2009 at 12:50 pm, Bob Firestone said:

Doing big deals is like climbing a tall mountain. Sometimes you trip and fall or take a path that doesn’t get you to the top. It only takes one trip on the right path to get to the top.

Other deals will come, you are way too cool for this to be the only shot you will have at the big time. When you get to the top just don’t forget the little people you met along the way.

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17. On February 11th, 2009 at 12:54 pm, Acne Oil said:

You can’t float big ships unless you do it in deep water… you gave it a shot and even though it didn’t work out, there are other deep waters.

Hang tough!

18. On February 11th, 2009 at 1:54 pm, Erika Jurney said:

I’m so sorry Wendy. The economy sucks right now, and I’ve had 2 good Deals fall through just since January. I feel you.

xoxoxo,
Erika

19. On February 11th, 2009 at 2:51 pm, Lorna Doone Brewer said:

Wendy,

I am so sorry about the disappointment you’ve had to face this week. So many of us believe in you and are excited for you to find whatever awesome deal makes itself known next.

Lorna Doone Brewers last blog post..Using Your Natural Evil for Business Good

20. On February 11th, 2009 at 5:54 pm, Suzie Cheel said:

Wow Wendy, I feel for you being an entrepreneur is such a bummer sometimes, but I believe it Hard as it maybe to hear this it probably wasn’t the perfect match:)

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21. On February 11th, 2009 at 7:21 pm, Loretta said:

Sometimes making decisions just plain sucks. It’s good to see you blogging here again. We’re glad to have you back ;)

22. On February 11th, 2009 at 11:08 pm, Penny C. Sansevieri said:

Hey Wendy – I’ve been reading your blog for months but never commented, not because I didn’t find it riveting but you know, just the time thing. Anyway I read this post and had to write you. Back in Nov I lost ‘the deal’ – I won’t go into here but it was devastating. I totally get how hard it is to pick yourself up from this stuff. Honestly, I nearly didn’t. But eventually, this entrepreneurial courage kicks in and we dust ourselves off and return for the next battle. Your post inspires me. I didn’t even have the courage to blog on it. I got another deal, not THE DEAL, but a deal. Did it make up for what happened. No. But in the end, as my mom always says: everything happens for the best. Sometimes it takes a while to figure out what the best part of this is, but eventually you will. Take heart, you will come through this. Thanks for the blog post – I’m thinking of you and wishing you well! Penny twitter.com/bookgal

23. On February 12th, 2009 at 5:30 am, Gini said:

Don’t worry Wendy, I know situations like this can be really tough and disappointing, but you’ll get through it! The hardest thing to do in life is pick yourself back up after a fall and it sounds like you’re already doing that, so good for you!

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24. On February 12th, 2009 at 2:37 pm, Marr Williams said:

I’m so sorry to hear that you had your heart broken over the deal. It’s a hard pill to swallow. I’m quite happy though that you managed to pick yourself up and kick your own ass back into submission so that someone like me didn’t have to. :)

It wasn’t your deal. Something better is waiting.

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25. On February 12th, 2009 at 3:25 pm, Chris Brogan... said:

I’m sorry to hear you’ve taken a hit. You’re a good person. I hope you move forward into even bigger opportunities.

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26. On February 12th, 2009 at 4:07 pm, Stephanie said:

Ouch! Glad to have you back, even if not in the best of circumstances. I hope a new deal comes along for you soon.

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27. On February 12th, 2009 at 5:16 pm, Wendy Piersall said:

I love you guys!

Seriously – thanks for your support. Just by being a part of my online life, you really made a difference. After spending nearly 3 years helping people to be in business and overcome obstacles, I couldn’t exactly give up, now could I? :)

28. On February 12th, 2009 at 7:06 pm, Mother Earth aka Karen Hanrahan said:

You are one of the most strident people I know. By example your shining on is inspiring!

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29. On February 12th, 2009 at 11:40 pm, Daphne said:

Hi Wendy,

Just wanted to say I appreciate your honesty in this post, and am sure things will work out for you. Keep blogging!

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30. On February 13th, 2009 at 10:35 am, Misty Faucheux said:

Keep your head up. I know you’ll find the next New Deal. We’ve all been down this road.

Good Luck!!

Misty Faucheux
http://www.viscape.com/users/mistyfau

31. On February 13th, 2009 at 11:32 am, malika risley said:

Sorry to hear that, but what was the deal??

32. On February 14th, 2009 at 7:43 am, Nicole said:

Hi Wendy, that’s tough. I went through something like that myself. Thank goodness it did not last long before I found another deal. You’ll do fine.

Nicoles last blog post..Keeping Outsourcing Relationships Friendly

33. On February 14th, 2009 at 10:48 am, Daille Nation said:

Wendy,

Very bold of you to share this with us. I’m with Mike on this. remember every cloud has a silver lining.

You will rebound and it may be better than ever.

Dee

Daille Nations last blog post..Read The Reader

34. On February 15th, 2009 at 2:42 am, Dennis Bjørn Petersen said:

I know how you feel. I lost my job because of the recession. I felt pretty sure that I was the one who should fire a couple of employees, but I lost my job too.

I’m confident that I’ll find a new job and you will find a new and better deal ;)

Dennis Bjørn Petersens last blog post..Bush’s Robots.txt Vs. Obama’s Robots.txt

35. On February 15th, 2009 at 6:24 am, Lisa Wood said:

So sorry Wendy – that’s so discouraging. Thanks for sharing this and deciding not to quit. You are a strong woman :)

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36. On February 16th, 2009 at 2:42 am, peterK said:

I was so sorry to hear about your bad fortune. Could you by any chance reveal what the deal was all about?

37. On February 18th, 2009 at 11:08 pm, Sharon Boller said:

You aren’t really an entrepreneur until you have a Deal fall through…and live to pick up the pieces and keep going.

A new Deal will emerge.

Sharon Bollers last blog post..Learning Solutions or Fast-Food Orders?

38. On February 20th, 2009 at 4:18 am, Kathy Crabbe - Soul Reader said:

I agree completely – Twitter is a very social place!

I learned a ton from reading Twitter Power and even made a sale within 1 day too :)

Kathy C.
http://SoulReaderBlog.blogspot.com

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39. On February 20th, 2009 at 8:54 am, Lennie Rose said:

Dear Wendy,

You are now that much closer to the next big deal. No matter how much you know, train, plan, negotiate, work and work some more, nothing prepares us for the turbulence of reality. It takes courage to build and courage to rebuild, but I have faith in you. Entrepreurship is not for wossies and you are no wossie. You don’t have to like it, you just have to stay there until you like it again. You inspire me and I just want to remind you that you will hit your marks.

40. On February 21st, 2009 at 8:57 am, Rose Martin said:

Hi Wendy… this is the first i’ve seen your page. However, as a writer I can truly empathize with you. Like all the comments here, I also hope things will work out for the best. Don’t worry, if it’s meant to be then it will find its way back. :-) Good luck!

Rose Martins last blog post..Edibles Can Leave Lasting Impressions, Especially Chocolate Wedding Favors

41. On March 7th, 2009 at 11:01 pm, Janice (5 Minutes for Mom) said:

And the new deals they so will be a coming!

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