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	<title>Comments on: Kitty Cannon And The Great Porn Fiasco</title>
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		<title>By: Sam</title>
		<link>http://www.sparkplugging.com/the-man-page/kitty-cannon-and-the-great-porn-fiasco/comment-page-1/#comment-3567</link>
		<dc:creator>Sam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 08:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the real problem here is that you and your wife are using Internet Explorer.  Firefox is the future baby!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the real problem here is that you and your wife are using Internet Explorer.  Firefox is the future baby!</p>
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		<title>By: Damien</title>
		<link>http://www.sparkplugging.com/the-man-page/kitty-cannon-and-the-great-porn-fiasco/comment-page-1/#comment-2266</link>
		<dc:creator>Damien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 01:55:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would leave it alone.  Tell him you found it, let him know you are monitoring where he goes now and I&#039;ll bet it never happens again.  That can be hugely embarassing for a young boy.

Damiens last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://diary.rileycentral.net/back-to-rss-reading-for-me/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Back to RSS Reading for Me?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would leave it alone.  Tell him you found it, let him know you are monitoring where he goes now and I&#8217;ll bet it never happens again.  That can be hugely embarassing for a young boy.</p>
<p>Damiens last blog post..<a href="http://diary.rileycentral.net/back-to-rss-reading-for-me/" rel="nofollow">Back to RSS Reading for Me?</a></p>
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		<title>By: In The Sphere: New Economy, Personal Finance, and Porn &#124; BlueFur.com</title>
		<link>http://www.sparkplugging.com/the-man-page/kitty-cannon-and-the-great-porn-fiasco/comment-page-1/#comment-2263</link>
		<dc:creator>In The Sphere: New Economy, Personal Finance, and Porn &#124; BlueFur.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 22:06:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wife, his son, and certain kinds of &#8220;adult&#8221; websites on his computer. Yup, it&#8217;s Kitty Cannon and the great porn fiasco. How do you deal with your kids and pornography?  What do you [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] wife, his son, and certain kinds of &#8220;adult&#8221; websites on his computer. Yup, it&#8217;s Kitty Cannon and the great porn fiasco. How do you deal with your kids and pornography?  What do you [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Modern Mami</title>
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		<dc:creator>Modern Mami</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 11:02:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that it would have closed the door and I think you &amp; your wife handled the situation very well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that it would have closed the door and I think you &amp; your wife handled the situation very well.</p>
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		<title>By: JLow</title>
		<link>http://www.sparkplugging.com/the-man-page/kitty-cannon-and-the-great-porn-fiasco/comment-page-1/#comment-2243</link>
		<dc:creator>JLow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 07:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you handled it well.

When I was growing up my parents never talked to me about this stuff. Like you, I had &quot;learned&quot; things from school friends, when a tape of objectionable material was being circulated (think Traci Lords). 

One suggestion I read somewhere on the interweb years ago, was to put the family computer in a public place, and not in rooms. This way anyone can see what&#039;s on the screen.

This of course is not the answer but only addressing a symptom. The cause of course is curiosity, and like I said, you handled it well. Sex should be taught in the correct light, and not learned from the trash that is available online these days; where it can appear violent or demeaning to women.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you handled it well.</p>
<p>When I was growing up my parents never talked to me about this stuff. Like you, I had &#8220;learned&#8221; things from school friends, when a tape of objectionable material was being circulated (think Traci Lords). </p>
<p>One suggestion I read somewhere on the interweb years ago, was to put the family computer in a public place, and not in rooms. This way anyone can see what&#8217;s on the screen.</p>
<p>This of course is not the answer but only addressing a symptom. The cause of course is curiosity, and like I said, you handled it well. Sex should be taught in the correct light, and not learned from the trash that is available online these days; where it can appear violent or demeaning to women.</p>
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		<title>By: Virilitas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Virilitas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 04:35:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yikes-- I&#039;ll bet he was really embarrassed to have that discussion with his mom present. Though, at least it let him know how what he did affected the family.

I agree w/ Jeremy&#039;s comment, above: I would have grounded him from the internet for at least a short while.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yikes&#8211; I&#8217;ll bet he was really embarrassed to have that discussion with his mom present. Though, at least it let him know how what he did affected the family.</p>
<p>I agree w/ Jeremy&#8217;s comment, above: I would have grounded him from the internet for at least a short while.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlie on PA Tpk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlie on PA Tpk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 19:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We had the same situation in my house, back in the Spring, and we dealt with it the same way you did.

I am looking for a router-based solution to better keep an eye on things, in case he ever goes way off base in the future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had the same situation in my house, back in the Spring, and we dealt with it the same way you did.</p>
<p>I am looking for a router-based solution to better keep an eye on things, in case he ever goes way off base in the future.</p>
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		<title>By: Derek Semmler</title>
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		<dc:creator>Derek Semmler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 18:28:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jeremy :: Yeah, I wasn&#039;t anticipating this to happen yet but it did.  Rather than ground him at this time, we made sure he understood that if we were to find something like this again that his computer privileges would be revoked immediately.

@Julie :: One of us is almost always in the same room when the kids are on the computer, although he said that he did it early in the morning after I had left for work and my wife was getting ready.  We could change their computer to require a logon but right now we have kept things status quo.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jeremy :: Yeah, I wasn&#8217;t anticipating this to happen yet but it did.  Rather than ground him at this time, we made sure he understood that if we were to find something like this again that his computer privileges would be revoked immediately.</p>
<p>@Julie :: One of us is almost always in the same room when the kids are on the computer, although he said that he did it early in the morning after I had left for work and my wife was getting ready.  We could change their computer to require a logon but right now we have kept things status quo.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie N</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie N</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 18:18:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband and I had a similar experience with our then 12 year old daughter. I completely agree that it doesn&#039;t make a kid a bad person. I can&#039;t fault her for being curious, but the Internet&#039;s not the answer. It really is scary how easily they can access stuff like this. In the end, we discussed it, much to her embarrassment, and for the next two weeks one of us had to be in the same room when she was on the Internet. Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I had a similar experience with our then 12 year old daughter. I completely agree that it doesn&#8217;t make a kid a bad person. I can&#8217;t fault her for being curious, but the Internet&#8217;s not the answer. It really is scary how easily they can access stuff like this. In the end, we discussed it, much to her embarrassment, and for the next two weeks one of us had to be in the same room when she was on the Internet. Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: Jeremy (Discovering Dad)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeremy (Discovering Dad)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:54:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow - I do not look forward to having that conversation with my boy. Sounds like you guys handled the situation very well, although I do think that I would have &#039;grounded&#039; my son from using the Internet for a week to ensure that he understood that there are consequences to his actions that are beyond disappointing us.  It&#039;s a tough call though.  I definitely don&#039;t think it makes a kid a bad person/kid for exploring, and sex should not be a taboo topic.  Porn, on the other hand, is not the way for a child to explore.

Jeremy (Discovering Dad)s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DiscoveringDad/~3/363086288/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Create a Parenting Blog that Lasts&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow &#8211; I do not look forward to having that conversation with my boy. Sounds like you guys handled the situation very well, although I do think that I would have &#8216;grounded&#8217; my son from using the Internet for a week to ensure that he understood that there are consequences to his actions that are beyond disappointing us.  It&#8217;s a tough call though.  I definitely don&#8217;t think it makes a kid a bad person/kid for exploring, and sex should not be a taboo topic.  Porn, on the other hand, is not the way for a child to explore.</p>
<p>Jeremy (Discovering Dad)s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DiscoveringDad/~3/363086288/" rel="nofollow">How to Create a Parenting Blog that Lasts</a></p>
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