Looking for tips to help increase your recruiting numbers? Prior to talking about some of the things you can do to help grow your team, it’s important to talk about what not to do.
Before you say, “But that’s not focusing on the positive, Laurie” let me say that I am positive that if you are currently engaging in any of the actions below; and if after you read this you find yourself with a new awareness that what you’ve been doing isn’t necessarily a best practice, I am positive you will see an increase to your down line.
Join My Team and Get …
Bribing people to join your team is numero uno on my list desperate recruiting moves.
- Do you really want team members who are just there for the freebies?
- It looks like your company’s business opportunity and/or starter kit isn’t good enough to stand on its own.
- How is this any different than the little elementary school girl who couldn’t get anyone to play with, so she gave away her cookies at lunch just to have friends?
- It’s sending a message that your mentoring and coaching skills are sub-par. Otherwise you wouldn’t devalue what you have to offer.
- Based on the percentage of royalties you will receive on your new recruit’s sales, have you calculated how much she/he will need to sell before you merely break even on your give away?
I Only Need Two More People To Qualify for the Trip
Do I really need to elaborate how desperate this one makes you look?
Push It… Push it Real Good
Some sales gurus will tout the benefits of creating a sense of urgency. Ok, I’ll give you that some feel this is a good tactic. However my personal experience with direct sales is that it is not appropriate to push too hard when recruiting team members; doing so only makes you look desperate.
- It’s one thing to let people know if you have a ground floor opportunity or a limited time offer, but will their lives really be that miserable if they don’t act now?
- If you represent a stable company with an awesome opportunity, isn’t it reasonable to expect that you (and the company) will be around for a while?
- You may be able to strong-arm someone into joining your team, or create must-have hype, yet if someone starts a business before she/he is ready, who will that benefit … anyone?
- Some will question the motive behind you pushing so hard to recruit new team members. If it’s a good fit, it should flow naturally.
I have never asked anyone to join my team. Never. I simply make my opportunity and myself visible; those who want to join merely do. I’ve had potential recruits ask if me I am offering any sign-up specials (no) or tell me that another consultant is offering free websites to their recruits (so). The passive, put-it-out-there-and-then-just-step-back and let-it-simmer approach has worked well for decades (yes decades) with me.
If you need to make some adjustments in your recruiting efforts, there’s no time like the present to do so!
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Leslie Truex is the pajama-clad work-at-home mom dedicated to helping other moms live and work comfortably. She's the author of The Work-At-Home Success Bible and owner of
Laurie Ayers is a WAHM from Michigan and a Star Director with 

Wow you’re point on with all those!
They scream desperation when I see people do all of what you mentioned.
Doing those things gives the person a ‘bad’ rep as well as the company(ies) they represent.
Love the new article!
It is all spot on!!!
“The passive, put-it-out-there-and-then-just-step-back and let-it-simmer approach has worked well for decades (yes decades) with me.”
YES! I’ve found when I use this approach, the team members are actually more successful and self-motivated. When you talk someone into the business, you end up dragging them along the whole way. This is much simpler and the results are better! Great article (it needed to be said!).
Karen Clark
WOW loved this post, great honesty and YOU hit the nail on the head with every single one! I have many things I sell… or more could sell, but do not push. I love that you said about letting them see that it is a good opportunity by the way your life is going and the way you are carrying themselves… people WILL take notice and want to know what you are doing and how they can get in. That is the best motto in many parts in life, children, work, leading a healthy lifestyle, live it, that is the best endorsement… not preaching it!
Thanks for great post!